do you know what people often forget? i don't say everyone, but a few, often play their role in forgetting things, as simple as appreciating what people have done. no pun intended, if you feel a tinge of hurt in your bloody heart. i am just pointing out my opinions. truly, people often forget to appreciate, to show how much they appreciate others. how much they are grateful that they are with someones whom have been taking care of them for their lives. let put an example to let this opinion of mine gets easier to understand and not complicate as to re-review back our whole process of growing up to become humans. lets see a husband and a wife. a husband who has been working his ass off to pay house rent, to pay bills, to finish car payments, to pay this and that, everything he needs to do for his entire household. he also needs to keep in check of his family, for he is the leader of the house, the man of the home, the pillar of strength for everyone especially his wife. practically, he requires to sweat for all matters, because, he is a man, as simple as that. even if you check in Al-Quran, Allah gives men more power, more strength, both physically as well as mentally. there is one saying that women are the backbones of men, isn't it? you see, allow me to say this, I'd like to tantamount men to spectacles' frames, the base, get it? just like your basement membranes. they support the lenses, the brands' tags attaching to them, the everything you can imagine a spec would require or need right now. it's their nature to be the men of the family. please say you understand me. lets make my emotions flow easier here shall we?
women, on the other hand, are like the lenses for the spectacles. they are required to support the husbands, to feed the families, to maintain the harmoniousness, the tranquility, peace, happiness, gloriousness and everything great in the families. woman, she sometimes sacrifice her own time, energy for her children and husband. no matter how tired she is, she just blend it into a bowl of feeling that everything she does is for the sake of the family, because she is the wife, so she ignores everything she abhors. i guess i am getting more complicated than before, i presumed.
OK. here's what i like to say out loud. when women complain, men should keep quite and never ever in their entire lives compare the hardship they has been going through as throwback lines for women. as for women, when men are sick or blabbing their turbulence in lives, they should not fight and not to be so nitpicking about everything. the rule to happiness is that, tolerate! as simple as it sounds, toleration is the most important thing you know. that's the key. you don't need to exchange gifts, you don't need to go shopping for showing how much you care, how much you love, those come later, (they do come in the points OK, because women like to shop!it's in their blood!), but the main point is, tolerate each other. don't compare. sometimes when men speak, women should listen and vice versa. when women cry and tell men how tired they are with all sickness and all, men should never mention their 'things' too. TOLERATE.
and of course, as i mentioned before, appreciate the people you have before you lose them. appreciate them before they are gone together. people have their limits. even animals have their limits, so why do you think humans don't? you can argue if you want, but trust me on this one, you better appreciate what you have before you have nothing left. i highly doubt that a 'thank you' isn't sufficient? it's suffice!!! i still remember mom always reminds us to appreciate what Allah has given us and not to complain on what we don't have. i always keep it in mind what father says that don't be so eager like a kid who has enough water to drink, food to eat, home for shelter and everything he requires for life but instead he searches for a beautiful ruby that he doesn't require and is out from his capability to buy. those are ones that are easier to mention here. my mom and my dad give advice a lot, too lot. i love you so very much. THANK YOU.
so, as to remind all of you out there, 1. appreciate 2. tolerate 3. be thankful and say thank you.
with that, i thank you all for reading.
women, on the other hand, are like the lenses for the spectacles. they are required to support the husbands, to feed the families, to maintain the harmoniousness, the tranquility, peace, happiness, gloriousness and everything great in the families. woman, she sometimes sacrifice her own time, energy for her children and husband. no matter how tired she is, she just blend it into a bowl of feeling that everything she does is for the sake of the family, because she is the wife, so she ignores everything she abhors. i guess i am getting more complicated than before, i presumed.
OK. here's what i like to say out loud. when women complain, men should keep quite and never ever in their entire lives compare the hardship they has been going through as throwback lines for women. as for women, when men are sick or blabbing their turbulence in lives, they should not fight and not to be so nitpicking about everything. the rule to happiness is that, tolerate! as simple as it sounds, toleration is the most important thing you know. that's the key. you don't need to exchange gifts, you don't need to go shopping for showing how much you care, how much you love, those come later, (they do come in the points OK, because women like to shop!it's in their blood!), but the main point is, tolerate each other. don't compare. sometimes when men speak, women should listen and vice versa. when women cry and tell men how tired they are with all sickness and all, men should never mention their 'things' too. TOLERATE.
and of course, as i mentioned before, appreciate the people you have before you lose them. appreciate them before they are gone together. people have their limits. even animals have their limits, so why do you think humans don't? you can argue if you want, but trust me on this one, you better appreciate what you have before you have nothing left. i highly doubt that a 'thank you' isn't sufficient? it's suffice!!! i still remember mom always reminds us to appreciate what Allah has given us and not to complain on what we don't have. i always keep it in mind what father says that don't be so eager like a kid who has enough water to drink, food to eat, home for shelter and everything he requires for life but instead he searches for a beautiful ruby that he doesn't require and is out from his capability to buy. those are ones that are easier to mention here. my mom and my dad give advice a lot, too lot. i love you so very much. THANK YOU.
so, as to remind all of you out there, 1. appreciate 2. tolerate 3. be thankful and say thank you.
with that, i thank you all for reading.
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